Ok so clearly i woke up on the wrong side of the bed had awful dreams of the future that doesn't need to happen, I know that most of what you do is for your business but there has to be some balance with all responsibilities juggled and taken care of. And Kai is a major one and the most fun R word. The only other truly important one I'd say. So we need a sit down with a calendar and a book of rules guidelines and expectations for all involved . If you guys are for real forever like you say you are then this is just as much Bridget's concern as it is yours. Kai and the cat box are so fucking not the same. You can choose to get rid of cats.